21 Days Positive - The Project

So today I turn 36, at this point in my life I am well out of the young and youthful phase of my life and have to accept that middle age is fast approaching. When looking back on my life I've realised two main things;

• Life doesn't stop for you 
• I have become negative and grumpy, 

I have found that rather than making a helpful comment I would rather make a sarcastic, or demeaning one to get cheap laughs, or make myself look better by knocking others back. I used to be happy and fun loving but I have let life get the better of me and wear me down.
I don't like being so negative and short tempered, I'm going to stop dwelling on my own thoughts and start to look outwards at the bigger picture and see what the world has to offer.

So from today for 21 days I will be posting something that I can be positive about, sometimes these will be small things, but others times it will be much bigger things. The thinking behind this is to start the day off in a positive mindset, which will in-turn make the day more positive, and then after 21 days I will hopefully have a more positive outlook on life and will continue to find the good. I'm going to try to stop before I speak and think about whether it is positive.

I want don't want to be grump anymore, sooner or later I will lose friends becoming lonely, I want people to like me want to be with me to because I'm fun, happy and positive.
I know this is more than just 21 days but you can't start a journey until you take the first step (or 21) once you're walking its easier to keep going.

You cannot turn your life around if you don't start moving.